Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Being the Leader we seek to follow...


As aggressive as the statement ‘Leadership in Action’ sounds, it’s not as harsh and technical, based on my experiences. It’s generally misunderstood that Leadership is all about “getting people to do things” with the lash of a whip. And, in the end, maybe it is correct (not the lash of a whip part!). But, obviously not by condescending, bribing or coercing.
Just before getting opinionated on Leadership, why not I ask myself this rhetorical question: “Why would anyone want to be led by me?” People have beliefs and they don’t follow anyone blindly. Understanding the psyche of an average team member is what can help me in defining my actions. Being an average team member, I have learnt the fact that the people, who have been a constant guidance throughout, are not the ones with the most credentials. They are people who left an impact and made a difference in my life.
 
Let me tell you about this protagonist (in his own way), whom I consider to be a true leader. He is the caretaker of this NGO for animals, which I am a part of. Everyday, not only does he look after all the animals in the shelter, he runs around the city rescuing them, treating them, attends promotional meetings, guides and trains the volunteers and takes care of paperwork. Single-handedly!
 
He has the passion, knowledge, conviction, humility, responsibility, confidence and above all respect, traits of a good leader. I’m amazed seeing his passion and dedication, which has inspired me and many others. For me, this is Leadership and this larger than life personality, the wonderful leader.
 
As Greg Savage has put across, “It’s what you do that counts. It’s your behaviour that people will remember and emulate. It’s your example that people will follow” - Leadership is Action!  

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

I read this today in one of my friend's profile in Facebook and I felt that the words just quoted out the feelings which I tried so hard to express to the 1000 souls who are showering curses on me right now...and I failed miserably. And I will make no attempt to do so..for a simple fact: I care no more...

"I am strong because I know weakness. I am compassionate because I have experienced suffering. I am alive because I am a fighter. I am wise because I have been foolish. I can laugh because I have known sadness. I can love because I have known loss. I am someone who has weathered the storm but still loves to dance in the rain."

My entire existence has taken a 360 degree turn and I feel like a sand clock right now...turned upside down everytime..and the same feelings and happenings repeating again and again...I wish I could stop it right there for the last time..But with each happening..I have searched myself deeper and questioned myself and found out what and who I am...I am a mystery which no man can unfold. I want to seek refuge in my loneliness as my heart soars higher everytime I am just within myself...I am stronger and prouder...I tread into the darkest of waters and I fear no more...I am happy..I need no bonds..I need just myself...I am alive....

I have woven a world of my dreams...where I seek refuge whenever the stark reality crawls into my life...I close my eyes and I feel the magic of my dreams..everything seems so perfect...and beautiful...and it has made me the dreamer that I am....

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

To my friend...

I feel connected to you through those invisible threads of emotion..something behind those eyes my friend, told me those untold stories of your life...even though i never dared to ask you about them..i always wish you let go of those ever hidden pains and sacrifices..
There are times when I stopped myself from walking up to you and force you to speak something..atleast something...You express your emotions through the words you scribble on a sheet of paper...you never want your existence to be known..
Allow me to take your hand and lead you to the purest part of the universe..the ocean and walk into the waters and let yourself be washed off of all the agonies you suffer...friend  I may be another stranger amidst all..but I will be a silent listener and a friend when you need one.....

Hope you read this one day and understand what I want to let you know..again though those invisible threads of emotion....